Oral sex; blow jobs and vaginal and anal licking

A blow job without a condom is an often requested sex act in sex work. In a film on this page we explain why it is better for your health to give blow jobs with a condom. Also you find information about vaginal licking (cunnilingus) and anal licking (rimming).

You probably have clients who want oral sex without a condom. We get it: you want to earn money and you want to make your clients happy, but you can get STIs from unsafe oral sex. So: Let's talk about blowjobs.

Watch the film, be safe & get tested!

Blow job

A blow job is an often requested sex act in your work as a prostitute.
Physically, it is less demanding than vaginal sex. If you have a vaginal infection, you can still give your client a blow job. You can continue working and earning if you want to.

Condom

Always use a condom if you give a client a blow job.Why is this advice important if you work in the sex industry?

  • Safe for HIV – you won’t get any sperm in your mouth
  • You will avoid herpes – in the form of a cold sore
  • You will avoid chlamydia en gonorrhoea in your throat – particularly if you perform deep throat without a condom, this is a risk.

Blow job technique

A blow job is more than just taking the penis in your mouth and sucking.  If you’re good at giving blow jobs, you’ll soon have a happy client.
You are in control.


Vary your technique, vary your mouth and tongue movements:

  • Kiss, suck, lick, chew, and bite softly (or hard)
  • Kiss, etc. along the shaft of the penis
  • The foreskin is very sensitive. Your client will come more quickly without you putting his entire penis in your mouth
  • The same is true of the head of the penis: very sensitive, your client will come quickly
  • Alternate between taking the penis in the front of your mouth and slightly deeper
  • Don’t forget the scrotum and the skin between the scrotum and the anus!

Cunnilingus or licking the vagina

Cunnilingus is an increasingly popular sex act in the prostitution business, but it is not as popular or offered as much as blow jobs.
It is not physically demanding; you can literally lean back.
If your client has rough fingers and fingering is not pleasant, the tongue is a soft and warm substitute for the finger.

Dental dam


If cunnilingus is one of the services you offer, use a dental dam.
Why use a dental dam?

  • Cold sore – if your client has a cold sore (not always visible), you can easily contract herpes in your vagina
  • Vaginal infections – the mouth contains billions of bacteria to which your vaginal mucus may be sensitive.

Rimming or anal licking

You can perform rimming on your client or he can perform it on you. Or both.
If you rim:

  • Wash your client first
  • Lick around the edge of the anus
  • Penetrate the anus with the tip of your tongue
  • Use a dental dam if necessary
  • Be aware of piles!





​If you are being rimmed:

  • Make sure that you are clean
  • Rinse your anus beforehand if necessary
  • Don’t allow yourself to be rimmed by somebody with a cold sore
  • Use a dental dam if necessary.
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