Fisting

There seems to be a growing demand from clients for anal fisting or fist sex.

It is a specialist sexual technique. You need to know where the anus is located. It is also important that your hands are not too big and, very importantly, you need to be happy to do it.
If you are good at fisting, you can offer an extra service and it’s not physically demanding for you.
What’s more, you can charge extra.

Fisting your client

Technique

  • You insert your whole hand, balled into a fist, into your client’s anus.
  • Do this carefully; start with a finger and build up gradually. Be aware of your client and his reactions
  • Continue only on your client’s say-so. Never force and don’t keep pushing
  • Always use extra water-based or silicon-based lubrication!
  • Make sure that your nails are short. If you don’t have short nails, make sure that your nails are filed properly (no rough edges).

Preparation by the client
The client may have cleaned his anus/rectum at home. He may also find it arousing to do it during the session.
Drugs (Poppers) can be used to relax the anus. This is not something we recommend.
Drugs suppress pain signals. Your client won’t respond to these signals and there is a chance that you can damage his rectum.

Safe anal fisting

Fisting does not pose a risk of hiv or other STIs for you or your client.

  • Glove
    For hygiene reasons, we recommend that you always wear a latex glove while fisting.  You can purchase latex gloves from a pharmacy, chemist and sometimes from the supermarket
  • Lubricant
    Use large quantities of water-based or silicon-based lubricant.  Nowadays, special lubricants are available. 
    Use a new glove and fresh lubricant for each client – including during group sex!
  • Female condom
    Instead of a glove, you could use a female condom on your fist. Remove the ring or the sponge from the condom. The material used in female condoms is soft and has no seams.
    Remember to use lubricants!

Fisting by your client

The explanation and recommendations under ‘Fisting your client’ also apply if you are being fisted.
Read this text as if you were the client.
Recommendation
Practise with somebody you trust first before you allow a client to fist you.

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